Helping Couples Thrive in Marriage (and Business) with Jason & Tori Benham

David Mitchell • April 5, 2022

Today on the podcast we’re talking about what, I believe, is one of the most important topics on the planet: marriage.


My guests today, Jason and Tori Benham, have been married for more than twenty years, own several businesses together, and
are passionate about helping couples thrive in marriage. 


Their book,
Beauty in Battle, chronicles their story and the practical ways that conflict that can tear people apart can also draw them closer together.


In this episode we talk about

  • How to fight shoulder to shoulder instead of face to face
  • How fighting is natural and inevitable–but there’s a right way and a wrong way to do it
  • Jason and Tori’s tips and tricks for a happy marriage both for newlyweds and for couples who have been married for years
  • The magic of active appreciation


“It’s not against flesh and blood, so stop yelling at each other. You have a common enemy. Now you need a common goal to defeat that enemy. And when you do it together, what happens is that fighting together draws you together.” Jason Benham 


Listen to the episode “Helping Couples Thrive in Marriage (and Business) with Jason & Tori Benham” now!

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